The movie "For Colored Girls" struck a nerve with me. I knew this girl who was pretty much in the same situation the character of Janet Jackson was in. She met this man, who was so fine and so perfect...so she thought. They had a connection when they first met and she grew to love him. But then years later, the friendship began to have holes in it. He wouldn't call or text the way he used to. And then one day, someone close to her revealed something about her friend, she knew in the back of her mind it could happen, but wishing it never would.
To her "FRIEND"
Well if you haven't caught on by now, she no longer has a desire to be friends with you. She doesn't want to be in any form of communication with you, therefore your Facebook friendship has been deleted, and your number has been deleted from her phone.
She doesn't want someone around her, calling themselves her "friend", when they are just using her for her skills and just to get close to someone around her.
She lost all respect for you when your DIRTY LITTLE SECRET was exposed. You are a liar and man on the DOWN LOW.... For you to have the nerve to try and use her as your escape route, that was just low. You didn't think about the after effects of the situation. You never thought about, well maybe she might just fall in love with me. No, because all you want, is satisfaction.
Do you know how it feels to hear about a man you thought you knew...???
You hear that they're trying to get with another MAN!!!
No, you have no clue, because are heartless and she is a woman who deserves nothing but the best, and that just isn't YOU!
The Ever So Changing Life of Ms. Wright (A.K.A. GOD'S BOO)
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Monday, November 8, 2010
Monday, November 1, 2010
It Hurts, But I'm Grateful
It hurts when you have to say goodbye to someone you thought you loved.
It hurts to say goodbye to someone you thought was your friend.
It hurts when you find out the truth about them, when you knew all along, but you just ignored it from day one.
How can you continue to lie to someone for years?............
Maybe it was just me, being blind.
I never knew how I would react when the real truth came out. And I guess it had to be from someone close, to take the binds from my eyes.
I knew all along, but because I saw the potential in you, I looked past your mistakes and loved you for you. You always complained that no one was faithful and loyal to you, but I was. And you see I said "was", because I can no longer be a part of your life or your lies.
You hurt me, but I guess that's why God allowed what He allowed and why He sheltered my heart. It had to be open enough to love you, but sheltered in so that you could not hurt me and forever I will be grateful.
It hurts to say goodbye to someone you thought was your friend.
It hurts when you find out the truth about them, when you knew all along, but you just ignored it from day one.
How can you continue to lie to someone for years?............
Maybe it was just me, being blind.
I never knew how I would react when the real truth came out. And I guess it had to be from someone close, to take the binds from my eyes.
I knew all along, but because I saw the potential in you, I looked past your mistakes and loved you for you. You always complained that no one was faithful and loyal to you, but I was. And you see I said "was", because I can no longer be a part of your life or your lies.
You hurt me, but I guess that's why God allowed what He allowed and why He sheltered my heart. It had to be open enough to love you, but sheltered in so that you could not hurt me and forever I will be grateful.
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Thoughts Running in My Mind at the moment.
Labels:
anger,
emotions,
feelings,
friend,
frustration,
relationship,
time,
trust
I'm angry. I'm frustrated. I'm disappointed.
I give you a chance, to show me you are worth my time, and you let me down.
You weren't there when I needed you and I don't feel like I can trust you.
You are a complete stranger to me and I think you always will be.
I'm not really in one of those laughing or smiling moods. I don't feel like there's anything to smile about.
I feel like you lie to me every time we talk and I think that's the reason I don't allow myself to feel anything for you.
You know when you meet someone and realize after you have invested time into them, that they weren't worth the time you spent?
Yeah well that's pretty much how I feel at the present moment.
My life has completely changed since I met you,and I can't say for the better unfortunately.
To be in a relationship or even a friendship for that matter, there has to be open and honest communication. They moment you start lying, is the moment there is a breach in our friendship/relationship.
You can't lie to me and just expect for when I expose your lie and you say I'm sorry that the effects of you lying goes away. Trust has been broken and it will be a challenge for you to earn it back.
My suggestion is to tell the truth at all costs, even if you think it will hurt the person's feelings, because if they find out that you have been lying to them the whole time, that will hurt them even more.
There's a problem when you're in a relationship with someone and they're not the person you initially go to when you have an issue.
-I feel someone else is better at being sensitive to my wants/needs
-You have a lack of sincere concern
-You have selective hearing
-You only care about something if it will directly affect your status.
I give you a chance, to show me you are worth my time, and you let me down.
You weren't there when I needed you and I don't feel like I can trust you.
You are a complete stranger to me and I think you always will be.
I'm not really in one of those laughing or smiling moods. I don't feel like there's anything to smile about.
I feel like you lie to me every time we talk and I think that's the reason I don't allow myself to feel anything for you.
You know when you meet someone and realize after you have invested time into them, that they weren't worth the time you spent?
Yeah well that's pretty much how I feel at the present moment.
My life has completely changed since I met you,and I can't say for the better unfortunately.
To be in a relationship or even a friendship for that matter, there has to be open and honest communication. They moment you start lying, is the moment there is a breach in our friendship/relationship.
You can't lie to me and just expect for when I expose your lie and you say I'm sorry that the effects of you lying goes away. Trust has been broken and it will be a challenge for you to earn it back.
My suggestion is to tell the truth at all costs, even if you think it will hurt the person's feelings, because if they find out that you have been lying to them the whole time, that will hurt them even more.
There's a problem when you're in a relationship with someone and they're not the person you initially go to when you have an issue.
-I feel someone else is better at being sensitive to my wants/needs
-You have a lack of sincere concern
-You have selective hearing
-You only care about something if it will directly affect your status.
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