So being in this new relationship, I must say, it has definitely been somewhat of a struggle. I had some other people in my mind and heart that I was keeping for a back-up plan or a just in case. But I was finally able to release those people. I refuse to settle for someone who I may just have a good friendship with, but no real love connection.
I am at a place in my life where I know who I am and I will not settle for anything less than what I deserve. Everyone deserves to be with someone that loves them and someone they love back. There has to be that desire to forsake all others for the one you're with. If someone else is consistently catching your eye, then you may not be with the right person or you may not be ready for that level of commitment.
I must say though I had many distractions coming in from all angles when I first started in this relationship, but I had to make up in my mind since I had made the decision to committ to this person, there must have been something extraordinary about him, so I must give him that respect. When you make up your mind that you will give your time to the one you're with, everyone else will see where your head is at and back up. Trust me.
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