Let's Come to an Understanding

So you say you love me, but when I look around you are no where to be found.
You say you love me, but I haven't spoken to you in weeks.
It seems to me as though you say whatever you need to get by, but I will let you in on my little secret, I'm no ordinary girl and you will give me the respect I deserve.
I have been through alot but I refuse to just except what is thrown at me or anything less than the best.
When you say you love someone, you don't treat them like the dirt you walk on.
I understand the fact that you need and want attention but what about me, I need some too from you. I am not going to chase you because you think that what's you want. If I'm someone you think you want to be with, then you need to work a little harder. I'm not up for doing all the work and you reaping all the benefits.